Monday, April 17, 2006

Keep A Relationship Smooth Sailing

1. Make time for each other. Set aside some time to enjoy each other’s company. Have a little tradition of spending time with each other regularly. Do things that you both enjoy. There is no need to spend much and be grand. Something simple would do the trick.

2. Take time off from each other. Give each other space. Let them be themselves and do things that they like. Let them pursue their interests.

3. Make little romantic gestures. Do not forget to compliment. Leave them little notes and little surprises. These would surely brighten up a person’s day.

4. Fight fair. Do not argue in front of other people. Do not insult each other. Do not insult their families. Don’t make mountains out of small things.

5. Take interest in what your significant other is interested in.

6. Listen. Do not just hear. But listen. Do not interrupt. Emphatize. Be pro-active.

7. Accept him/her for who they really are. Totally. Do not put up expectations. You would be only disappointing yourself.

8. Express commitment. Renew vows. It will provide comfort and security to your significant other.

9. Trust. Do not be suspicious. Do not snoop through their things. Be honest.

10. Be his or her bestfriend. Appreciate him or her for who he or she is. Loosen up. Have fun.

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